Imagine
you are in a club, drinking alone or maybe accompanied by a group of buddies
and a girl is dancing in the crowd not giving a damn to the world. Her moves
are so effortless and smooth that you unknowingly got hooked on that amazing
view. Hair like dark waves that is bouncing with her and played mischievously
with her bare shoulder, collar bone and the mysterious valley between her two
divine breasts. Despite being so tipsy, you can smell her perfume from a
distance. Suddenly you feel a strong urge to be daring, even your friends may
be encouraging you to approach her.
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This scenario was obviously made up, but something more or less like this can happen anytime. Most men get nervous while approaching a girl whom he find sexually attractive, except for some dudes with magnetic personalities and playboys. This is very normal, especially when you are interested in someone, asking them for a dance or even a cup of coffee can make you feel nervous. However, there are tricks to deal with such situations quite smoothly.
First things first, age are a crucial factor, so the trick you can easily pull off for a teen, may not work for mature European girls. Sometimes the location plays a pivotal role to makes things easier, for instance, if it is a club, you can initiate conversation while dancing with her or offering her a glass of wine may also show your interest in her. In most cases, a great chat and a couple of whiskey shots lead to a lift home and eventually a sensual ride, but not necessarily you will b the god's favourite child always to get it done in the first shot every time. In that case, the exchange of cell numbers is a proper green signal.
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Girls adore those men who can be daring
for them, so even if asking her to come over feels a bit desperate, go for it.
you both are naughty enough to assume what a room date will lead to, but
consider not making it too obvious while inviting her to your place. Let her
pick the movie, even better if she chooses a series (you know what I mean),
none of you going to finish it watching anyway.